"Urge to Merge"? Don't Do It Until You Read This...

There is no point in overlooking ‘red flags’ in a bid for instant intimacy. Usually, the relationship will end badly (and for the very reasons you chose to overlook from the start.)
— Monica Parikh

When Lea Rose Emery from Bustle.com asked us about U-Hauling (i.e., the tendency for lesbians to move in together quickly), we provided advice that applies to all couples regardless of sexual orientation. Don't start picking out china patterns until you read this.

Monica Parikh