The Sisters Kassimir On America's Need for a Collective Orgasm.


I cannot tell a lie:

When I started to coach women and men on love and relationships, I had no idea that I would open the Pandora’s Box of human sexuality. I keep all client information strictly confidential. Accordingly, people share their deepest bedroom secrets.

Before long, I noticed a troubling trend…

Americans are not having sex.

In fact, Time Magazine released an article in October 2018 entitled, “Why are We All Having So Little Sex?” A variety of factors are killing our sex drive. And, of those couples who are having sex….it’s frequently low-quality and short in duration.

Was Mick Jagger was right all along in saying, “[We] can’t get no satisfaction.”

Can we get to the place of “Sensual Seduction,” as best described by Snoop Dogg?

My hairdresser introduced me to the Kassimirs—the Fairy God-Sisters of the Almighty O. Remy, the Executive Producer and Host of the podcast “How Cum,” had never experienced the big O at 28. Like any dedicated lifelong learner, she began to interview experts—who gave her tools to learn the art of pleasure. Her sister, Charlotte, now serves as Executive Producer. Together, they are taking this formerly taboo topic mainstream.

To start, I asked two important questions:

Are we in the midst of an orgasm epidemic in the United States? Globally?

Remy: Yes, there is a massive pleasure gap between straight men and women…and we are trying to close it.

Why are orgasms important to our physical and emotional health?

Charlotte: Orgasms are literally a release. Just like crying or laughing, an orgasm is the natural bodily function intended to make humans feel better. They can also be super-empowering, especially when self-induced.

These hilarious sisters had me laughing, as we collectively agreed that America would be best-served with a collective orgasm and cigarette, especially during these politically volatile times.

To hear the full interview, click here. We cover:

  • The downsides of being a “lazy masturbator.”

  • The biggest impediments to orgasms, including shame regarding sex.

  • The critical advice every woman must know about her own sexual empowerment and pleasure.

  • How to be a generous giver of pleasure.

To find their podcast, How Cum, on I-Tunes click here.