Helping you to develop your emotional intelligence to achieve your highest potential is my mission.



1. Search my site. 

This site contains my most recent work and exclusive content. I write and contribute to international websites and publications, including MindBodyGreenThe Good Men Project,, Man Repeller, and Marie Claire magazine and all of this content is available for free. If you want to learn about a topic that I have not yet written about, let me know. I am frequently inspired by reader questions. 


2. Buy my books. 

I am building a library of self-published books on my Products page. I often collaborate with professionals to cover a wide range of topics related to the human experience. Future offerings will cover grief and heartbreak, dating, relationships, parenting, and other health and wellness topics. My goal is give you well-written, entertaining and easy-to-understand materials that help you evolve to your highest potential.   


3. Sign up for a group class. 

I teach group classes that are accessible no matter where you are in the world. My most popular offering is the “Boundaries Make For Better Relations.” This 4-week program is a game-changer—giving you the tools to claim your voice and also maintain emotional equilibrium no matter what life throws your way. Clients have called it “amazing” and “life-changing.”


4. Book me as a speaker or guest

For more than 20 years, I have been engaging large audiences with energetic and captivating presentations. My most recent presentations have included: "Feminine & Powerful: Tools for the Next Generation of Leaders" & "Smart Leaders Work Less: A Zen Approach to Balance and Productivity in the Information Age." I can tailor presentations for particular audiences, including high school and college students. If you have an event you would like me to consider, please email me. My team responds to every inquiry within 24-hours.


5. Hire me as a personal coach. 

I love one-on-one coaching, but I have limited time available for it. Therefore, I am very selective and very expensive. Currently, the minimum package is 10-sessions. (Clients report radical change in as little as 2 sessions.) With a wealth of professionals in my network, your transformation will be fully-supported along the way. If you want to take the plunge, email me.


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This is what some of my clients have been saying:


"After 2 courses with Monica, I really changed on a fundamental level (my awareness, the way I think and feel about myself, & how I project myself outwardly). I feel truly grateful. The setting is completely judgment-free. We all root for each other and feel safe to let down our walls and be authentic and honest.

I know how much gratitude I feel. I know how much more empowered I feel. I know how much braver I feel. And, I know how much wiser I am becoming."  

K.M., Boca raton, fl

"I didn't know that I could feel any more empowered as a woman than I already did, but to be honest, Monica has taken me to a whole new level. I finally had the courage to cut off the dead-weight of a past relationship and am excited for what my future holds."

J.M., New York, NY

"I would honestly pay Monica 4x the amount of money for her courses if I could. I have a completely different outlook on my relationships, priorities and even how I treat myself. If my mind can shift as much as it has in those short 4-week courses, I can't imagine what this 12-week course will do for me. I'm very excited to find out, though!"

E.F., Indianapolis, In

"Monica's 'lessons' (I like to think of them more as lovely chit-chat) transformed my life completely. I never felt so empowered and it helped me to find my soul-mate after many years of unsuccessful attempts."

R.B., London, England

"In a short amount of time working with Monica, I recognized that I have been vulnerable with the wrong people. As a result, I built walls around me.  For me to have any kind of lasting relationship, I need to continue pushing forward to heal and trust myself.  The process has been super painful, but one I know is necessary to get to where I want to be.  I am very thankful for these classes and Monica.  The timing and the content is an amazing answer to my prayers.  I can't imagine a more loving environment to work through some really difficult issues. God bless Monica for her time, warmth, and care."

K.S., Palo alto, ca

"Monica has intelligence and common sense that are superior to that of many people. While everyone likes to give advice, most people just like to hear themselves speak. Monica is educated (more than just academically) and she surrounds herself with high-quality people. She is a student of the game (for lack of a better word) and is always looking for angles to improve her life inter-personally and beyond."

E.A., New York, NY