Helping you to achieve your
highest relationship potential is my mission.



1. Search my site. 

This site contains my most recent work. While I write and contribute to international websites and publications, including MindBodyGreenThe Good Men, Man Repeller, and Marie Claire magazine, new and exclusive content is always featured here. All of this content is available for free. If you want to learn about a topic that I have not yet written about, let me know. I am frequently inspired by reader questions. 


2. Buy my books. 

I am building a library of self-published books on my Products page. I often collaborate with inspiring professionals to cover a wide range of topics related to the human experience. Future offerings will cover grief and heartbreak, dating, relationships, parenting, and other health and wellness topics. My goal is give you well-written, entertaining and easy-to-understand materials that help you evolve to your highest potential.   


3. Sign up for a group class. 

I teach group classes that are affordable and accessible no matter where you are in the world. My most popular offering is the 4 Weeks to Your Best Love Life Boot Camp. Whether you’ve always struggled to have a healthy relationship or have experienced a recent knock that’s left you feeling lost, this 4-week program gives you the basic tools for relationship literacy. Clients have called it “amazing” and “life-changing.”


4. Book me as a speaker or guest. 

For more than 20 years, I have been engaging large audiences with energetic, captivating and thoughtful presentations. My most recent presentations have included: "Marriage as a Spiritual Journey" and "Superior Women Inspire Greatness." I can tailor presentations for particular audiences, including high school and college students. If you have an event you would like me to consider, please email me. My team responds to every inquiry within 24-hours.


5. Hire me as a personal coach. 

I love one-on-one coaching, but I have limited time available for it. Therefore, I am very selective and very expensive. I guarantee that our time together will produce enormous change very quickly. I offer 4-week, 8-week and 16-week coaching packages. If you're motivated, we can achieve your heart's desire in little time. With a wealth of professionals in my network, your transformation will be fully-supported along the way. If you want to take the plunge, email me.


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This is what some of my clients have been saying:


"My two biggest challenges had been picking the wrong guys and smothering/moving too quickly. I knew these things were taking place, but wasn't clear on how to change them...until Monica showed me! I love her energy and honesty. She can see the good in people and highlight those features, while also telling it like it is."  

M.L., Austin, TX

"I didn't know that I could feel any more empowered as a woman than I already did, but to be honest, Monica has taken me to a whole new level. Both her and Aimee are wonderful. I finally had the courage to cut off the dead-weight of a past relationship and am excited for what my future holds."

J.M., New York, NY

"What I love about Monica is her honesty, compassion, humor and spirit. She was able to reign me in when I was acting irrationally and call me out on my behavior. She saw things from my perspective, in terms of my past trauma and patterns and was able to help me stay in control and to stay separate. Her advice to learn the art of detachment was key to the survival of my new relationship."

K.G., New York, NY

"Monica's 'lessons' (I like to think of them more as lovely chit-chat) transformed my life completely. I never felt so empowered and it helped me to find my soul-mate after many years of unsuccessful attempts."

R.B., London, England

"Monica is fun and funny and always available and willing to help. She is straightforward and delivers clear and honest messages in a kind way."

K.A., Brooklyn, NY

"Monica has intelligence and common sense that are superior to that of many people. While everyone likes to give advice, most people just like to hear themselves speak. Monica is educated (more than just academically) and she surrounds herself with high-quality people. She is a student of the game (for lack of a better word) and is always looking for angles to improve her life inter-personally and beyond."

E.A., New York, NY